Precious slippersIt is most unusual for us to get presents unannounced, but there they were, popped through the letterbox in a brown paper envelope. Out came a pair of hand-made slippers with tough plastic soles and pink crocheted uppers. Accompanying them was a hand-written letter addressed to ‘Two friends in UK’ and signed by ‘Esakwan’. All quickly became clear; the slippers, which fitted me rather better than they did my wife, were from a remarkable woman whom we met last year while on holiday in Kenya.

Esakwan was the ‘cook-come-maid’ in a once-grand colonial house in Nanyuki, a British army garrison town a hectic four hour-drive north of Nairobi. The house, like the others dotted along Lunatic Lane (named such by the locals!), was owned by a descendant of a white settler family. We were there at the invitation of a guest who was house-sitting while the owner was away.

Esakwan was getting about her business in the background but was, nevertheless, impossible to ignore. She was a tall, handsome, almost serene woman with a kindly, warm, gently smiling face and hard-worked hands and feet. We were introduced and she made us feel at ease. For whatever reason she invited us to come to her new home for a cup of tea if we had a moment – we accepted. Her house had been built by her and her brother and only recently finished. It gave her great pride.

While sitting on the Lunatic Lane veranda our host told us Esakwan’s story. Now around thirty five, she had been orphaned at seven. She had two younger siblings for whom she had  suddenly became responsible. Yes, they were moved from orphanage to orphanage, sometimes together sometimes apart, but she remained the mother figure throughout.

The death of the parents was felt by the whole of the community alike. In the early evening the two had gone together to collect water from the local stream, something they had done many times before, but this time they did not come back. They had been killed, gored to death by wild buffalo. These animals, which roam freely in the bush, are known to be ferocious and to kill humans without provocation, some say as if out of spite. Her parents would have known all about their behaviour and would not have stood a chance. Now an adult, Esakwan lives with her own two daughters aged around eight and ten.

At tea we discovered that her new house was tiny,  made of wood and corrugated iron and sat in its own small yard. With its beaten-earth floor and drapes instead of window panes, the single room was divided by curtains for privacy. With no inside loo, no electricity and no running water – it was a 50-metre walk to a nearby tap. With the kitchen outside, living there would have been hard. Nevertheless it was theirs, and a major improvement on the overcrowded community-living of just a few months earlier

Despite the circumstances, she managed to make the room look lovely and spotlessly clean. With a neat tablecloth over a box – if I remember correctly –  a set of tea cups, some homemade biscuits and enough chairs to go round, tea was served. The girls were quiet, well behaved and still in their school uniforms. Esakwan proudly showed us round the house and yard. It was an extraordinary hour. Here was a strong, courageous, brave, woman struggling and succeeding.

After a quick chat while the girls went to look for their school work, Rohan and I decided that we would offer to help pay for running water to be brought to the house. The offer was accepted and over the next days and weeks negotiations began. Overall it would cost around two hundred pounds – for Esakwan a sum that would be out of the question.

Just recently we heard that the water had been installed. For all sorts of reasons it would have been an enormous relief to them all. No doubt each time that she or one of her daughters had collected the water, they would have been haunted by the story of the parents/grandparents. Obviously the slippers were by way of a thank you and they would almost certainly have been made by Esakwan herself. They will always be very precious.

3 thoughts on “The precious slippers

  1. A very moving story indeed, what a priviledge for you to have met this formidable lady, and be able to help her and her family.
    Now Esakwan ‘ slippers, wear them or not wear them, ? If they are comfortable why not , for a while, until they start to wear out .
    Once worn , what to do with them? keep them with the story behind them, I am not sure how that is possible;
    despite its provenance and the story they cannot be kept forever on the mantel piece., as a memorabilia.
    Greyhare might give the solution, the slippers will probably disappear, at some stage in the future, but the story will stay in Greyhare for a long time.
    Any other suggestions, ? you or others, Sarah I am sure, but will she want to use her brother’ s old worn slippers for a piece of art work, ?
    Meanwhile , may Joe’s feet, enjoy Esakwan slippers as long as possible.
    May Esakwan and her family have a better future. Now with water, then electricity and an education for the daughters. We have to live in hope, I do.

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  2. Joe, we have spoken about our hesitation. A beautiful story of positive action but one helpfully pointing up moral dilemmas, for example to single out one individual from the community for help, but perhaps this was deserved because of her history. And tourism to poor parts of the world can be helpful in economic generation, widely spread if the tourism resource is owned by the local people (eg game parks) Ian

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