Sometimes I do things I can’t explain, perhaps more precisely I can’t justify. This blog tells of just such an instance. It might be the result of being cooped up for three months but that would probably be too simple. The fact is that I have just adopted a tree which, when I can, I go to see and to say my ‘hellos’, touch its bark, marvel at its size, strength and longevity, and, if I have time, spend a moment imagining what it will have witnessed over its seven hundred years.

During the lockdown the number of pets that have been bought in the UK has soared – for many, a puppy who offers unconditional love can hardly be bettered. For me, after around 500km of recreational walks on which there has been much observing, my newcomer is a giant oak. I have not become an indiscriminate tree lover, it just feels reassuring to be close to a living organism, such as my oak, that has survived for centuries and inevitably weathered adversity. 

In recent years there have been hints that I might be able to gain support from something other than a human being, in this instance from a tree. However, it certainly was not how I felt as a child. My relationship then with trees was rather conventional. The appeal of a loved box tree at the bottom of our garden was very straightforward. It was my favourite because it was easy to climb, not too tall and the curved branches near its top provided somewhere I could sit. There, in my ‘crow’s nest’, everything seemed visible and all without a thought that the tree had special powers.

In my late fifties, things began to change. Although on the first occasion it was not a ‘personal’ relationship with a tree, but one experienced vicariously, it made me think. Just over twenty years ago my wife, Rohan, adopted a giant London plane that was growing near our house. She was being treated for breast cancer and on the advice of a counsellor would touch her tree – her symbol of health and longevity – at least once a day. The support she drew from her ‘tree-of-life’ was very real. At the time I didn’t understand the strength of the relationship but now when I pass her plane I stop to think and to thank. 

The next step occurred when I adopted not a tree but a beautifully carved, three-thousand-year-old standing stone close to our house in Brittany. For years, whenever I have driven or cycled past ‘my’ 3-metre high ‘menhir’, I have stopped and touched it. Making close contact in this way with something so very old and venerable, although inanimate, became important, but exactly what was going on has never been clear. 

Finally, to my special new friend. On our recreational walks since lockdown I have become more and more taken by the indigenous Richmond Park oaks – all the English oak – Quercus robur. They are there in their thousands; some saplings, some in their prime, some so old that they have shrunk down to the size of large bushes, and some now lying dead on the ground with their skeletons used as homes for umpteen insects and other tiny living forms. 

Of the oaks standing in the Park, well over a thousand are ‘veterans’ and of these a third are more than five hundred years old. These older trees have a survival story to tell – they were saved by Henry VIII. In order to build boats for his navy, which included his warship the Mary Rose, oaks were felled in their thousands. However, to ensure the survival of oak forests he decreed that one in every forty trees should be spared. Moreover, those saved should be at least forty years old – it is not until oaks reach forty that they can produce acorns and so reproduce. 

My special oak, which now stands alone, will have been one of the ‘Saved-by-Henry-VIII’ vintage. As an 800-year-old, and probably the oldest tree in the Park, it would already have been 200 years old in the early 1500s at the time of Henry’s big cull. At present its vast canopy is heavy with leaves (see illustration) and such a seasonal display will not have changed for centuries.

On foot, the six-kilometre round trip to see my special friend and then return home takes well over an hour. It is a mystery how such a tree could make a difference to me but it does, and my trek each week for our rendezvous now feels almost compulsory. As for explanations, I have none. One day I would like to know more but at the moment, why does it matter?

The illustration is a photo of my special oak friend in Richmond Park. Despite being over 700 years old and probably half the size it was in its prime, its canopy of leaves remains lush.

For help with writing this blog I would like to thank Sarah, Rohan and Vivien. 

12 thoughts on “A New and Special Friend

  1. Another magical story Joe, and the photograph is magnificent!

    It makes me visualise you as a little boy siting in a tree, to you now as a wise older man… similar to the tree you’ve seen so much over the years, and made a difference to so many lives.


  2. Dear Joe
    Your story has some similarities to a story by Brian Keenan, that I heard on the radio yesterday, about how nature has messages for us. Perhaps the tree has something to tell you, and the rest of us.


    1. Dear Andrea, Thank you for your comment. Learning from nature is somehow understandable; feeling reassured or strengthened by touching something is more difficult to explain. Any ideas? Love, Joe


  3. I don’t know. It is a particularly remarkable living thing and you are lucky to have it so close that you can visit it regularly. It’s your menhir in London. By the way menhir reminds me of the relationship between Breton and Welsh: maen hir is what we call the same.


    1. Dear Andrea, Thanks for your response. The menhir is about 2 kilometres from our house in Tréguennec. As I understood it, in Breton ‘menhir’ means long stone. Love, Joe


  4. It’s a truly magnificent tree Joe and it is humbling to think that when left to their own devices they live more than 10 times as long as we do, standing in one place and letting time pass, serenely and without emotion- one wishes they could speak and tell tales.


  5. Dear Anis, Many thanks for your comment. As you say, it is indeed humbling. I will never know what my tree has seen but I have imagined Henry VIII sitting under it picnicking.
    Yours, Joe


  6. Interesting about Henry VIII saving trees.
    Is it more the age or just the tree which attracts you? Both probably but for me its age would be my first attraction
    But I am very fond of a type of tree for its shape
    It is quite common but I am not sure of its name. I will have to find out.


    1. Dear Sauliac, This is the first tree I have adopted so I am hardly an expert. I hovered between three trees and the factors that ultimately made the difference were it’s age, site and size. The one in the photo is old, sits by itself and it’s trunk and branches are enormous.
      Simple. Love, Joe

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  7. This is another lovely story, Joe, and one that is particularly poignant in these times of instability, uncertainty and transience. I am so glad your tree is there for you and will continue to be. There are so many things about trees which we do not yet know – both the science and things less discernible. Isabella Tree (! yes, really, that’s her name!) in her book Wilding talks about how it was learning about some of the mysteries of trees which led to the remarkable project at the Knepp estate in Sussex. Continue to connect with your special friend, Joe.
    JJ x

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    1. Dear JJ, Thank you for your generous comment. Writing this blog raised a very difficult dilemma for me. My attachment to that oak seems to have some sort of ‘spiritual’ component and that is the last thing I would hope for me. Can you explain? Love, Joe


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